It would also be difficult leaving immediate family left here on the East Coast, but with one sister and three nieces already spread across the U.S., I've had years to cope with that reality. Now, with fewer years in front of me than behind, it's unsettling to envision day-to-day life without regular interaction with my newest tribe.
Would I make new friends? Of course. How? Likely via some of the same techniques used when I moved here sixteen years ago. I'd join - or start - a book group or two. I'd volunteer, get involved with a local activist group, find people who enjoy hiking or being outdoors. My wife would try to connect with folks who love gardening and I'd try to locate musicians and other aspiring writers. One of the upsides to the Internet is how easy it can be now to connect with people that have similar interests. And staying in touch is also much easier than it used to be.
But, however, still ...
Pat, that is indeed a quandary. I was only a four hour drive from my grandchildren as they were growing up but that still limited the time I had with them. I prioritized holidays and school vacations. And, when they are little such as your grandson, they change so fast. I am now a great grandmother and they live in Dallas. It is the quandary once removed. No easy answers but my sympathies....
ReplyDeleteDifferent geography, same boat. I'm finding it helpful to recognize "ties that bind" that are not important to the big picture. (e.g....but I know where the dry cleaning shop is...)
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