I'm pleased to say I've always been grateful for my family. Even as an obnoxious teenager, I was aware of my good fortune in this respect.
That said, I'm a bit chastened to admit that sometimes I take the talents of some of my family for granted. Am I the only one who needs an occasional slap in the head to help them more fully appreciate the talent of a family member they interact with regularly? I hope not.
My oldest niece is one of my favorite people. She's thoughtful, smart, and funny. When she recently moderated a discussion at my book club, I wasn't surprised how effortlessly she handled the task. But earlier this week, after reading a book review she wrote on Goodreads, her skill expressing herself in writing struck me anew. Is it possible I'd conveniently "forgotten" this undeniable talent of hers in part because of a need to be recognized for my writing? Again, I hope not.
What I learned from my lapse is to begin paying closer attention to the talents of everyone in my family as well as to start acknowledging those talents more. How can this do anything except fortify the strong bond I share with them?
The best slap downs are the ones that lead to appreciating someone anew! Thanks for reminding me Pat.
ReplyDeleteRegina; Thanks for the comment. And you're welcome for the reminder.
DeleteShe did a wonderful job moderating the book club discussion. Appreciation of talents of family members is wonderful!
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DeleteI love this idea. Giving others praise and recognition is a great way to feel more joy ourselves. I can get better at this too.
ReplyDeleteAlison; Thanks for the comment. All of us can get better at this.
DeleteAwwww this is so kind Uncle Pat! Thanks for asking me to moderate the group and for reading those reviews. I appreciate it!
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