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Wednesday, July 16, 2025

A Pizza Mitzvah

I'd like to take full credit for a recent tiny act of generosity taken at a local pizza shop while enjoying my pre-workout slice. But I'm obliged to give partial credit to a stranger who paid for my coffee at my go-to convenience store some months back. That stranger said "pay it forward" to me when I thanked him. 

It could be that stranger's kindness was rumbling around somewhere as I watched five young boys - probably twelve or thirteen years old - negotiate how much pizza and soda they could afford with their combined cash. The interchange they had about their money vs. their hunger with the good-natured woman behind the counter made me smile, at first. But the uniformly polite and quiet back-and-forth that continued really caught my attention. And then, the perfect manners of one of them saying "Yes, please" to this patient woman moved me into action. 

I briefly thought about telling these boys how proud their parents would be if they had been watching the courteous behavior of their sons. After all, they had quickly learned and been disappointed by the fact of being able to manage just one slice and one soda each with their limited funds. But I quickly discarded the idea of only talking to them, anticipating they might think I was just a weird old man; these were teenagers. 

While finishing my slice, I quietly asked the counter woman to put an additional five slices in the oven and paid her. As I began walking out, she told the boys there was more pizza coming their way via the man leaving the shop. I got a final sign that my small act of largesse was earned as one of the boys said "Actually, thanks!" I replied "Actually, you're welcome."


8 comments:

  1. I love everything about this story. Sometimes it's these things that stay with a person through life. I think those boys will remember your generous act. And learn that simple truth--generosity generates.

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    1. Regina; Thanks for the comment. Those boys remembering that their good manners were recognized and appreciated is more important to me than remembering what I did.

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  2. Agree with Regina’s comment. This inspired me to enact kindness in my day today.

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    1. Anonymous; If this post truly inspired you to "enact kindness" yesterday it served a tiny purpose in the world. Thanks for the comment.

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  3. I too love this story and agree with the above comments!

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    1. Ines; Thanks for the comment and adding to the positive chorus above.

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  4. Karma... past it on... it will come back to you many times over :)

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    1. Chris; Good to see a comment from you on a post not connected to music. Any good karma I've been responsible for in this world has come back to me more times than I can count.

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